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The Tantrum Window: What the research says about the terrible twos and why it changes everything

The word I said during the tantrum that made everything worse…

A personal moment about the word I chose during a meltdown, and what it quietly revealed about how my child is wired and when your toddler pushes back on an emotion label, it feels like failure. It’s actually nervous system data.

In this podcast, I share the moment I said the right word at the wrong time for my son’s specific temperament, and what the research on toddler emotional wiring says about why it went the way it did.

And if your child escalates when you try to name what they’re feeling, this is for you.

By Lauren Greeno
Child & Adolescent Development Specialist & Parenting Coach | Founder, The Parenting Collaborative
Lauren specializes in helping parents understand invisible dynamics shaping their children’s development and redesigning family systems before patterns calcify into adult identity. With expertise in child development, family systems theory, and trauma-informed parenting, she works with families navigating sibling dynamics, only child considerations, neurodivergence, emotional regulation, and breaking generational patterns.
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